Fitness · Nutrition · Accountability for women 35+

Same woman.
Stronger chapter.

DefineHER is our coaching programme for women 35+, bringing progressive strength training, practical nutrition and personal accountability together in one clear plan.

Built for your body.
Designed for your life.
Women 35+Progressive strengthPractical nutritionReal coaching
This is not another quick fix

You don’t need to train harder, eat less or start over every Monday. You need a clear system that understands where you are now and helps you become the woman you’re ready to be.

Your strongest
years are
still ahead.

Why DefineHER

A smarter approach to strength after 35.

You do not need more fitness and nutrition noise. You need a clear plan you can follow. DefineHER helps you understand what matters, simplify the decisions and put it into practice through progressive training, nourishment, recovery and consistent coaching. Wanting to feel better in your clothes or change your body composition belongs here too. And your own health and goals deserve space alongside the people and responsibilities you care about.

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Train with purpose
Clear programmes that progress with you.
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Eat to support your goals
Practical nutrition without extreme restriction or forbidden foods.
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Build lasting confidence
Personal coaching, progress reviews and accountability to help you stay consistent.
The DefineHER method

Everything works together.

Not random workouts. Not a meal plan you’ll abandon. One complete system built around three essentials.

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Fitness

Progressive strength programmes designed to meet you at your current level and move you forward safely.

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Nutrition

Simple, protein-led guidance using food you enjoy, built for energy, recovery and results you can sustain.

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Accountability

Weekly personal coaching to review your progress, work through challenges and give you clear direction for the week ahead.

Your first 28 weeks

Start where you are.
Become who you choose.

01

MOVE • 4 weeks

Build your foundation

Bodyweight-based training to restore movement, consistency and confidence. No equipment required. A manageable starting point for time that belongs to you.

02

BUILD • 4 weeks

Add resistance

Introduce dumbbells or resistance bands and begin building real, measurable strength.

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BODY • 12 weeks

Transform your capability

A structured gym programme that develops strength, fitness and body composition over 12 focused weeks.

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STRONGHER • 8 weeks

Own your strength

Advanced strength training for women ready to lift with intent. Best completed with gym or home-gym access.

Inside DefineHER

Coaching, clarity and a programme that grows with you.

You’ll always know what to do next and why it matters.

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✓Progressive training programmes
✓Exercise demonstrations
✓Nutrition foundations and recipes
✓Protein-led meal guidance
✓Weekly personal coaching review
✓Accountability and progress tracking
✓Training through the app
✓A clear 28-week pathway, with ongoing programmes afterwards
A free introduction to DefineHER coaching

Start with your free 5-Day Kickstart.

Get a feel for our main DefineHER programme with five days of simple meals, purposeful movement and daily guidance for women 35+. This free Kickstart introduces our fitness, nutrition and accountability approach; it is separate from the GLP-1 programmes.

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Dedicated 12-week GLP-1 programmes · For women and men

Lose the weight.
Keep the muscle.

Separate from our main DefineHER coaching membership, these dedicated 12-week programmes provide simple strength training and protein-focused nutrition designed to help minimise muscle loss during GLP-1 weight loss.

Optional Personalised Nutrition Support adds individual targets, an adapted sample menu and a weekly coach food-log review. Compare programme and nutrition support options →

For women

DefineHER GLP-1

Dedicated 12-week programme

A clear whole-body training plan with a lower-body and glute emphasis, alongside practical protein-focused guidance.

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For men

DefineHIM GLP-1

Dedicated 12-week programme

A clear whole-body training plan with a chest, back and shoulder emphasis, alongside practical protein-focused guidance.

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Compare the GLP-1 programmes →

There is an option to continue after the 12-week programme. Designed to help minimise muscle loss. Individual results vary; complete muscle preservation cannot be guaranteed.

Meet your coach

“Strength changes more than your body. It changes how you move through your life.”

DefineHER was created by Aimee Sutorius, former Black Fern, experienced coach and personal trainer, to give women over 35 the intelligent, practical support often missing from mainstream fitness programmes.

This is expert coaching grounded in real life: strong enough to create change and flexible enough to live with.

Coaching that sees the whole woman.

Complete your weekly check-in in the app and receive personalised feedback from your coach. See how your progress compares with previous weeks and your starting point, get guidance on any challenges you’ve raised, and know what to focus on next.

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Personal weekly coaching. Clear direction.
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Designed specifically for women 35+
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Progress without punishment
Frequently asked questions

Still have questions?

What makes DefineHER different?

DefineHER isn’t simply a workout programme or meal plan. It brings progressive training, practical nutrition guidance, personal coaching and a clear pathway together in one complete system for women 35+.

Where do I start?

Most members begin with MOVE, the four-week equipment-free foundation. From there, your programme progresses through BUILD, BODY and STRONGHER.

Do I need a gym membership?

No, not to begin. MOVE requires no equipment and BUILD can be completed with dumbbells or bands. BODY and STRONGHER are best suited to a gym or well-equipped home gym.

Will I have to follow a strict meal plan?

No. You’ll learn how to eat well using foods you genuinely enjoy. There are no forbidden foods, extreme restrictions or unrealistic rules, just practical guidance that supports strength, energy and consistency.

Is there a lock-in contract?

No. Membership is NZ$299 every four weeks with no minimum term. Cancel before your next renewal to stop future payments. Your access continues through your paid period.

Your next chapter starts here

Your next chapter starts with DefineHER.

Explore our main coaching membership for women 35+: progressive training, practical nutrition and weekly personal coaching to help you build consistent habits.

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